Hi ladies, I will be 40 in 5 days, and almost in full menopause based on my hormone tests?

and absent menses for a few months, anyway this question might sound grouse but here goes. last night when I went to the loo to do a number 2 skin tissue from my bum with a bit of blood on it went into the loo. why was this? the tissue was white, with some blood on it. Is this normal? and when I go for a run I have to wear a pad because I have a weak bladder because I have had 4 kids and when I come back there is a bit of blood on it from my bowel. as it is at the back part of the pad, and last night I went to use loo paper and there was brownish pinkish discharge from my but, I want to know if this is normal? a grouse question I know lol