Are my deep heartaches normal? Is it normal to need consoling after getting hurt by someone i love?

That is perfectly normal to get upset when someone hurts you emotionally, there is nothing wrong with that. You aren't acting childish you are just being you and so what if you are a sensitive guy it's better than being a total hole. Just be your sensitive sweet self and if anyone has a problem with it then they aren't your real soul mate sorry :( Good Luck and Happy New Year=D